Holy Spirit is the one,provided to lead us into all truth. Are we using HIM to know what we are destined for ? Read ON!
Don't allow guilt of sin grips you. Return to your Lord Yeshua. HE is your Daddy, He loves you so much, that's why He came to earth to save us from sins. He cares, cast all that troubles you, worries you, distracts you, upon Him.
We being the children of God cannot do business with those who oppose God's words.
Yeshua is the faithful friend, that you can talk to, depend on, lean on. He corrects you gently, His spirit if you allow will live in you and guide you.
Teaching kids every skill and not teaching to lead a proper spiritual life is really the big hole left for the enemy to attack.